Simps will simp - anonymous

It’s true, they will, but there has been a shift over the past decade from it being abnormal to not-so-much. They will always exist in some form. But for most people, it’s been damaging.

Loneliness is up. Virginity is up. And with these problems come added health issues (see the loneliness link). But the issue I’ve had personally is with dating.

You can’t go on Tinder without seeing 100 IG handles. The women have zero interest in actually dating, these platforms have become promotion tools. I was out of the game for sometime and I came back to a wasteland – it’s been my primary motivation for starting this project.

And the fans, the OnlyFans. There is absolutely nothing wrong with normalizing sex work, a lot of people watch porn, a lot. But I came across my moms OnlyFans and it was the last straw for me. Kidding. Seriously though, it’s a double edged sword; there’s a lot of hype around OF right now and most people won’t really make any money, so it will eventually lose popularity; it’s just how trends go. But for the time being many people are buying the content, which is fine… but many people also think they are talking to these girls.

They are being taken advantage of. Do a quick search and you will find models are paying people to handle their messages for them, which they often charge for, and half of the time they are guys fielding the DMs. These poor guys are jacking it to dudes and don’t even realize it, yet. And for me, morality is important. It separates us from the apes.

But we’ve created this unhealthy loop. Women are getting overloaded with dopamine, so why would they stop? And their photos are heavily edited, so they fear meeting real people. Many guys have no place to turn, so they like, comment, and buy. Now that buying is in the equation it amps up the levels of dopamine, I’m sure, when they get a new subscriber. Like, comment, subscribe. Repeat. Record, post, profit. Repeat.

It’s not easy for the other half either. I saw someone make a comment the other day about how degrading it must feel to not be doing well on OF and having to put it on sale. Putting your pussy on discount… ouch.

That was a side tangent, but again if you look into the loneliness problems and the virginity stats we aren’t doing ourselves any favors here. The problem will get worse before it gets better. We need human connection. We deserve to be loved. We need to quit simpin.